Amy Wilensky (born 1969) is an American writer who has published two memoirs. Passing for Normal: A Memoir of Compulsion (2000) is about her experience of Tourette syndrome and obsessive–compulsive disorder. The Weight of It: A Story of Two Sisters (2004) is about her sister's obesity.

Early life and education

Wilensky grew up in the Boston suburb of Sudbury, Massachusetts.[2][3] She was bullied as a child because of her Tourette syndrome.[2] She attended Vassar College, and studied writing at Columbia University School of the Arts.[2][3]

Writing

Wilensky's Passing for Normal: A Memoir of Compulsion (Broadway Books, 2000) describes feeling shame and sadness as a child with obsessive–compulsive disorder (OCD) and Tourette syndrome.[4] She had uncontrollable tics.[5] The book has been described as demonstrating "the extreme lengths to which individuals with Tourette's may go to manage their symptoms in social settings".[6] The journal Metapsychology said that the book was "frank and competently written" and would provide hope for "people who are odd in some way".[1]

Her second book, The Weight of It: A Story of Two Sisters, was published in 2004 by Henry Holt and Company, and is about her sister's obesity.[7] Publishers Weekly said that "Wilensky masterfully tells a story that she recognizes is not truly hers to tell".[7] Kirkus Reviews said "Funny and affecting in parts, but on the whole disappointing".[8]

Personal life

Wilensky received cognitive behavioral therapy, anti-depressants and haloperidol to treat her conditions.[9] She wrote in 2000 that "although some of the more deeply-ingrained tics and rituals do creep back in times of stress, I am largely free from the burdens they imposed for so long on my body and mind".[10] She said that "Although I never set out to become a spokesperson for TS and OCD, my memoir has made me one".[10]

Wilensky lives in New York City, and is married with two children.[11][12]

References

  1. 1 2 Perring, Christian (14 March 2001). "Passing for Normal". Metapsychology. 5 (11). Retrieved 16 June 2025.
  2. 1 2 3 Levine, Hallie (17 August 1999). "Living with Tourette's: author Amy Wilensky tells what it's like trying to pass for normal". New York Post. Retrieved 16 June 2025.
  3. 1 2 Geller, Jeffrey L. (2000). "Twitch and Shout; Passing for Normal: A Memoir of Compulsion; Motherless Brooklyn". Psychiatric Services. 51 (11): 1455–a–1457. doi:10.1176/appi.ps.51.11.1455-a. ISSN 1075-2730. Retrieved 16 June 2025.
  4. Komor, Christian R. (2000). OCD and Other Gods. Wellness Institute, Inc. p. 14. ISBN 978-1-58741-037-6. Retrieved 16 June 2025.
  5. Curtis-Wendlandt, Lisa (2023). Chasing Tourette's: Time, Freedom, and the Missing Self. Springer Nature. p. 127. ISBN 978-3-031-19104-6. Retrieved 16 June 2025.
  6. Malli, Melina Aikaterini; Forrester-Jones, Rachel (12 April 2025). Tourette's Syndrome, Stigma, and Society's Jests. Springer Nature. p. 378. ISBN 978-3-031-83368-7. Retrieved 16 June 2025.
  7. 1 2 "THE WEIGHT OF IT: A Story of Two Sisters by Amy Wilensky". Publishers Weekly. 17 November 2003. Retrieved 16 June 2025.
  8. "The Weight of It". Kirkus Reviews. 15 November 2003. Retrieved 16 June 2025.
  9. "Passing for Normal". Kirkus Reviews. 1 July 1999. Retrieved 16 June 2025.
  10. 1 2 Wilensky, Amy (8 August 2000). "A girl less ordinary". The Guardian. Retrieved 16 June 2025.
  11. Egger, Rebecca (Spring 2000). "About Books". Vassar, the Alumnae/i Quarterly. Vol. 96, no. 2. Retrieved 16 June 2025.
  12. Wilensky, Amy (29 June 2021). "The Importance of Earning Interest". Vassar, the Alumnae/i Quarterly. Retrieved 16 June 2025.